Rob K:
I surely cannot be the only person here to notice the utter irony of those members whining about trolls/trolling/mods done nothing to stop it etc, are largely the perpetrators of the very stuff they’re complaining about? Has no-one bothered to point out to them that perhaps they should take a look in a mirror to see the source of the problems and realise that their “bantz” are pathetic, not even remotely funny and suggest they change their ways if they wish to continue being a member?
My casual observations over the past 48 hours of reading various threads dating back a few months and also occasional ‘look-ins’ prior to that show quite clearly there are around 10 prolific members that have formed a clique and between them with their silly little ‘in jokes’ have turned this site into one of the most unfriendly and unwelcoming on the net if you’re new or an outsider. This is not a new thing either, it’s been rife here for at least the past 5+ years.
Their modus operandi is roughly thus :
- new guy or someone not in their clique posts a thread.
- clique member posts a jpeg/gif meme insult or ■■■■-take.
- another clique member will jump on the bandwagon with some insults and abuse of their own.
- ringleader of the clique appears with his usual 2 line reply and long line of laughing emoticons.
- a different clique member replies to the ringleader with more laughing emoticons and some terrible ‘in joke’.
- ringleader replies to that with some guff.
- another clique member will post agreeing with the others and will call into question the legitimacy of the story or whatever posted by the OP.
- repeat points 3 to 6 ad infinitum until there’s at least 3 pages of back-slapping and thinly veiled abuse and insults at which point the OP concludes that Trucknet is full of complete and utter bell-ends and never returns.
In essence this clique of members are treating the Trucknet forums as their personal chatroom. If you’re not part of the clique then you get ganged up on and ousted out. The utter garbage and dross that you’d usually find contained to Facebook groups has spilled across to these forums and it’s spread like an out of control disease.
I note from reading between the lines on the threads that number 2 clique member has finally been disposed of but why has this taken so long? Rikki and the administrators should be ashamed of themselves for letting that go on for over 5 years. Any member with a vaguely foreign sounding username whom didn’t have English as their first language was ripped apart by him on EVERY POST they made and the mods did absolutely nothing. How in the name of all things Holy is that behaviour acceptable and how do you think it looks to them or any other new members? I am no fan of the driving antics of our foreign cousins but they should not be subject to constant unwarranted abuse and ■■■■-taking on every post they make just from wanting to participate and join in the discussions. And again, those members ripping them to shreds over their limited grasp of the English language are often found to have a poor command of English grammar themselves. Stones and glasshouses?
The only reason I can see that the clique members are complaining about “trolls” is simply because the non-clique member(s) have an opinion that isn’t inline with their (collective) own. When the usual ganging up together to oust them out doesn’t have the desired effect, the crying and name-calling begins because they don’t like that an “outsider” has a differing opinion to their own and is challenging their faux authority. It’s blatantly obvious in nearly all of the lengthy threads that have descended into petty arguing and name-calling. They pretend to act all innocent and hide behind “it’s just banter” when challenged but it’s BS and it stifles any interesting or intelligent discussions from taking place.
Make it known to the perpetrators that their content is not welcome here with the tools at your disposal and eventually the message will sink in and they’ll find somewhere else to congregate. The fact that they post just staying on the right side of the ‘rules’ line should make no difference. If their response to someone’s post is not constructive, helpful or deemed not to be a worthy contribution to the site then remove it. It really should not be hard to sort out. Get rid of the source of the problem and slowly people will return and the post quality will start to improve and the 5+ years of Facebook-esque trash posts will disappear into the aether.
I am of course fully prepared for the wholly predictable “pot calling kettle” responses to this due to having a history for being a bit of a scamp myself (as I’m sure the long-termers here will be quite eager to remind me of). However I feel qualified to comment as I too have been firmly placed in the sin-bin on 2 occasions for overstepping the mark and I have the wing clippings to prove it, but, having been away for some years and remembering how this site used to be, it really has become an unpleasant and unwelcoming place to visit. Ignore the cries of “it’s just bantz” and stop letting certain members treat the forums as their own personal playground. No ifs, no buts, no discussion about it; post on-topic and constructively or bugger off back to Facebook where you came from.
Hi Rob.
You make a few good and valid points.
I don’t necessarilly agree with them all, but you would know that anyway due to the fact that me and you have not exactly gelled in the past when you have come on here in some of your alias guises and for everything that went on during that time…(history btw as far as I’m concerned)
Call me arrogant, call me vain, call me paranoid, but I bet as sure as hell that I am in your eyes part of the ‘‘Clique’’ you are on about, if only because you mention a few negative comments aimed at mods, and I have done just that…although constructively I like to think.
I also like to think I get on with the majority of the mods, a couple of pms do prove that.
If I am part of this perceived clique you mention, there are two sides to every tale mate, here’s my side.
Firstly cliques are part of human nature, not everybody can like each other
(me and you prove that )
There are cliques in every pub, organisation, club, football grounds, or any other gathering of testoterone fuelled groups. So as far as this forum goes, Trucknet is no different, and with those cliques come the ‘‘in jokes and cracks’’ , …fair enough a bit boring and meaningless to others on the periphary.
Whether or not said clique/cliques spoil it for others is open to individual interpretation, as you have proven.
For my part in it, seeing as I am more friendly with a few on here than others (including ‘‘member no.2’’ as you refer to him) I can answer some of your points, from my own personal view on it all.
Yeh, I’ve outed one or two trolls, mainly because that is what they are…trolls end of.
As for me accusing and belittling all new members, definitely not.
There are numerous posts on here with me saying ‘Welcome to Trucknet’', I have wished new lads ‘good luck’ many times with predicaments they have had.
I have given advice,… I even have a few pms in my box thanking me for giving the advice that some have taken.
Foreign drivers…I’ve been accused too many times for sticking up for them TOO much, so not guilty on that score either.
Picking up on grammar…only if some ignorant ■■■■ has a pop…I don’t suffer d/heads too well.
On the other hand, picking up on spellings and grammar, a definite ‘no’, …I have tried to encourage one very knowledgable veteran driver, and good bloke, who freely admits to not handling spelling etc very well, so does not come on as often as he would like in case of ridicule, to ignore it, to come on and give us the benefit of his vast experience.
As you rightly say yourself you have been less than a saint on here yourself, but I won’t give the predictable answer of it ‘‘being a bit rich you criticising other’s personas on here’’ so I’ll rise above it.
Reckon I’ve covered all your points.
If you feel the need to reply to my post with cheap jibes and personal insults as in the past, …up to you bud, I aint fussed, fill yer boots, but I hope you take it in the spirit it was intended instead.
Cheers.