newmercman:
Orys, let me break my statement down for you, then you may see what I meanListen before you speak, or read before you write, this way you can make a judgement on the person you’re dealing with, if they’re an idiot, then you’ll be wasting your time, anything you say will be ignored
That’s why there are some people that I don’t waste my time to speak with anymore. You are not an idiot in my opinion, so I still believe that our discussion will be beneficial for both of us.
In respect of the internet, if someone is posting purely for a reaction from you (a troll) then if you write in response, without reading what is not written, but what you can read from a comment if you read it proplerly, well then you’re just giving them what they want, which is to get you all fired up and you fall for it everytime
You say then that you are all just bunch of trolls that actually WANT me to write more and more?
See, on a serious note, you have to remember, I am not a native speaker. Therefore I am not always able to catch everything that is written between the lines, and propably this also the reason as well for why sometimes you are not able to grasp what I am trying to say. It’s like in this thread: i noticed something, and I got a feeling that I was not understanded correctly by some of the participants, therefore discussion was derailed and now I have to defend myself from accusations of saying something that I never said (or never intend to say, in case that some of my posts could be indeed understood that way).
As for answering: sometimes I am not sure of yours (my adversaries) intentions, so I am writing just in case that they are serious. I am not sure for example, if you are for some reason just unable to get some simple things, or you just trolling me, but I think there is no harm (other than usage of my time, but I am writing my dissertation ATM and I am doing anything to procrastinate anyway) if I try politely to explain to me my position. Saying that, I would not waste my time for someone else, it’s just I think you are intelligent and I value your posts even if we don’t agree on something.
So I think I get your point here, but I just choosed slightly different approach: I examine one’s post at the angle if I can answer politely using some arguments, then I am doing it. If there is nothing to answer, I stay quiet (or say something like a joke to relax the atmosphere of our discussion a bit).
Raymundo: Do it. If someone is boring to me, I am just not reading him. It helps a lot! There are 1000s of posts on trucknet, you for sure find something more interesting to you