Hello there and thank you for reading
I’m not sure why I registered on this forum but I have been a member for a while
I have tried joining the correct forums but they need verification from the admins and I’m pretty much looking got some advice ASAP as I am in such a mess
Yesterday I ran a red light
I’ve been driving for 28 months and I absolutely worship my car and my licence
It took me longer than usual to pass my driving test because I was convinced I could never do it-
It meant so much to me to be able to take my sons on holiday and not worry about public transport ( I’m welling up now )
My eldest son looks up to me as a driver and he loves our car
Yesterday my mind wasn’t really on it; someone had left a candle burning in my caravan and I was all of a mess thinking it’ll burn down.
I managed to get back and put it out but essentially that’s what caused the anxiety I then had from then on
I was driving down a road I use all the time looking straight ahead- and this woman, ( my car wasn’t anywhere near her don’t worry ) bolts across the road.
To me it looked as tho she was dodging traffic… The way she just ran across the road like that made it look as tho she didn’t have the right of way
I was so fixated on the fact the pedestrian ran into the road that I totally missed the red light on the pedestrian crossing.
As I went over it at 22mph I noticed out my mirror that the pedestrian crossing had turned to flashing amber - the lights had been on red for a long period of time when I went through them
The pedestrian was obviously running across the road to ensure she got over before the lights went to green; however, with the anxiety build up of leaving a candle burning in my caravan, and the fact that the lady appeared to be running into the road, I totally didn’t see the traffic lights Infront of me until it was too late
I have googled the junction and circled it 4 times to look for cameras but I didn’t see any. That being said they could’ve been hidden
When I went through it my eldest son said " mummy that was a red light what are you doing " and he started crying… He then proceeded to tell me how scared he was we would loose the car
He’s 9 this year and loves cars, he wants to be a driver when he’s 17 and has asked me if he can go on a course for children that begin at 11 plus
He looks upto me as a driver, looks up to me as the driver of our magnificent car.
The disappointment on his face broke my heart when I went through that light and I can’t stop crying
I’ve read that because the light was on red for so long that I’ll face an NIP instead of a FPN
I could be charged with dangerous driving even tho I made a genuine mistake
I would go to court simply to be able to tell a magistrate I am sorry and explain what had happened- I would prefer to go to court so they could see how truly sorry I am
I am in such a state about it and not sure how I’ll over come the worry and the anxious wait for the prosecution letter
What will happen to me? I’m not a dangerous driver - I am usually papped at for bein Too slow, snarled at for allowing other drivers to go left or right when I’m
On the main road and abuse hurled at me for letting people cross the road when there’s a queue of traffic.
I’m not an ignorant driver- I find myself quite courteous
I just don’t know what to do
How will I know whether I’ll get caught? There were no police in sight at the time
Any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated
I was also flashed by a 30mph speed sign- my speedo was showing 32. It’s very very rare that these signs pick up an accurate speed and it’s teen the first time in my drivers history that at 32mph on speedo I’ve been flashed by an average speed sign. My speedo is usually 3/4mph off. There was a grey camera a few feet Infront too
I’ve been told there are no cameras from Ingoldmells through to Skegness apart from at the main junctions
Please will you help me find out