sam mill:
hey guys thanks for ur support to who cares there sum ppl who dont give a [zb] about ppl feelings we still not 2gether
doctor givin me sum antidepressants n waiting 2 her from concelor plus sum of us werent tht gd at spellin so it no joke
Its nothing to do with folk not caring fella. Its to do with you not being able to see where you have erred in this but to expect the worlds sympathy.
I don’t deny breaking up with someone is emotional, but ffs fella, you stated yourself you told her to sling her hook. You also stated that its not the first time. How do you think her emotions are? How is she expected to feel and get on?
You cant go through life blaming everyone else for your tantrums and then expect every thing to be rosy. Ever heard the Fable “The Boy That Cried Wolf”? maybe a good read for you fella.
I just hope your ex and the kids are able to find them selves a loving STABLE family life they probably deserve, instead of having to worry about a short tempered, ranting, egotistical, immature attention seeker.
Wake up fella, and look deep at yourself, cause until you can see where you went wrong, you will never be able to change.
Hey Tensport obviously your a wind up and your help is as much use as them Irish child molesting priests so if he has any sense he wont bother going to see any PRIESTS.
ironstipper:
sam mill:
hey guys thanks for ur support to who cares there sum ppl who dont give a [zb] about ppl feelings we still not 2gether
doctor givin me sum antidepressants n waiting 2 her from concelor plus sum of us werent tht gd at spellin so it no joke
Its nothing to do with folk not caring fella. Its to do with you not being able to see where you have erred in this but to expect the worlds sympathy.
I don’t deny breaking up with someone is emotional, but ffs fella, you stated yourself you told her to sling her hook. You also stated that its not the first time. How do you think her emotions are? How is she expected to feel and get on?
You cant go through life blaming everyone else for your tantrums and then expect every thing to be rosy. Ever heard the Fable “The Boy That Cried Wolf”? maybe a good read for you fella.
I just hope your ex and the kids are able to find them selves a loving STABLE family life they probably deserve, instead of having to worry about a short tempered, ranting, egotistical, immature attention seeker.
Wake up fella, and look deep at yourself, cause until you can see where you went wrong, you will never be able to change.
This sounds spot on. Sam your still young pal, go out with your mates enjoy yourself and MAKE time for your kids to have them through the week or at weekends. Break ups dont have to be dirty, and shouldn’t be especially when kids are involved as it will be them who get the worst of it if mum/dad are at each others throats 24/7.
Lucy:
I don’t think it’s for any of us to judge the ins and outs of someone else’s relationship, truth be told. The important bit is that Clinical Depression is real, and no amount of telling people to snap out of it (or words to that effect) will enable someone who is suffering to do that. It is precisely because of that attitude that so many people suffer in silence, and it’s a taboo that needs to end.
My mother suffered with this horrible condition for over 10 years, and I spent most of my late teenage years and beyond picking up the pieces. Walk a week in both her and my shoes back then and you may see the whole issue a little differently. The triggers vary, and are largely irrelevant, it’s effective treatment that is the key.
Classic “Lucy”, as someone who was married to my 1st wife for 9 years who had depression for some years before I met her and again after the birth of our daughter and incidentally is still suffering from depression after over 40 years of all kinds of electro therapy and all other medications etc. I totally understand the saying of “pull yourself together” as this is not an illness like a cold where you take an aspirin and it goes away it is a debilitaing illnes that spirals downwards if you let it get a grip on you!
You can,t just “pull yourself together” as the saying goes because it is an illness that has no known cure and you never know when it will strike, as there is a distinct difference between depression and just being down in the dumps so to speak or fed up with life.