I hope you’re not 18 stone! Dude, you need to lose weight! I’m 15 and that’s bad enough. Driving is notoriously bad for your weight. Sat on your bum all day, eating from burger vans, ok so there may be a bit of handball, but it’s an unhealthy job.
Ok, so 7.5 is out. Maybe a van driver is possible? Cat d may sound good, but I hated it when I did it. Why? Passengers for a start, people are ■■■■■■■ and it changes throughout the day. In the morning you get the people on their way to work, they are ok. Then you get the school kids, they are tossers! Then you get Doris and Herbert doing their shopping, they are ok. Later on you get the school kids on their way home, if you thought they were tossers in the morning, they are infinitely worse on the way home, they have had all day at school with their mates and they are now full blown ■■■■■■■■■ Vandalism on the bus! A bit later you get the Jeremy Kyle crew on their way to the pub to spend their dole money. That’s not too bad, but later on when they’ve had a skinfull and are on their way home the fun really starts!
Complaining customers and being responsible for everything. And the driving is so boring, all you do is drive round in bloody circles all day. Trust me it gets to you! And if you want to leave, you have to pay for the training. I stuck it for 6 months and if I hadn’t left when I did, I would have slit my wrists!!! I hated it. I have thought about going back to bus driving for a while whilst I was on agency, but if I had, it would have been coach holidays or day trips, certainly not service work!
I know what you mean about sticky situations, you have my sympathy! I had a good job a few years ago and had to leave because of what happened. My first marriage broke up and one of the women suggested I take her daughter out, which I did. We dated for a couple of years until we started breaking up. I went out with her mum to talk and we ended up sleeping with each other, too much beer and a total f up!
Anyway, her mum decided that she was in love with me. I wanted no part of it! She left her husband, got a flat and tried to seduce me! I nearly had a nervous breakdown! My girlfriend found out, that whole thing just got totally fubar! I got another job and left a really good job, she was taking every opportunity to ■■■■■■■■ pester me! I walked away and regret it to this day, but it was the only way I could wash my hands of the whole family.
So, you have my sympathy! I don’t know your situation, but ■■■■ happens and my advice would be to think carefully and do what you need to do, any advice you need, on here or by pm, ask away and I will do my best to help. Seriously dude, sometimes work stress can be toxic, so do what it is that you need to do.